|Horse Problems Australia
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Victor Harbor, SA. 5211
Do horses love us ?
Well I don't think they do. I certainly love them but I am fairly sure they only respect me.
I often notice that when people enter the Horse Industry, they try desperately to win the love of their new horse. I feel that their belief that one can achieve this is brought about by the thousands of horse books that have come onto the market, mostly from England, where horse ownership is talked about in "touchy feely", almost fairytale terms. I have rarely seen a book that tells it like it really is.
Among the large number of "Problem Horses" that come through my hands, I notice that many of them just have a lack of respect for their owner. When that respect is gained by re-educating the owner a lot and the horse a little, behavioral problems seem to disappear.
I feel the answer lies within the world of horses and if you go and sit in a paddock and watch them for a reasonable period of time, you will see what I mean. Yes, Horses may love other Horses but I don't think they love Humans. I will stand corrected of course.
You may love your horse all you want providing you have a set of rules that govern it. You may reward your horse all you like but again, have a set of rules. Here are some suggestions:
As I said in the article on "discipline of the horse", I don't believe that horses love anything but food but they do come close through respect. In fact, the word "respect" may mean "love" to a horse as they certainly act as if they are loosing a loved one when you remove the boss horse from their paddock all of a sudden. No matter how hard the boss horse kicks them, bites them or even injures them, take it away and the others will run around in panic, screaming out for its return.
Can a Horse act as if it hates you? Yes. The more they lack direction and leadership, the more they are likely to appear to 'hate' you. You have heard the saying, "The Horse has people problems, not Horse problems" That is an extremely accurate observation. The majority of Horses that come through the hands of Trainers', have 'people problems'
So if you want your horse to come near to loving you, gain it's respect and you may come close. Be a strong assertive owner, handler and rider but above all, be fair. That is the road to respect. I can guarantee you that if you are a weak handler or rider, your horse certainly will have a low opinion of you and like so many people, suffer the long list of bad behaviour symptoms that are exhibited by frustrated Horses. Frustrated due to a lack of 'Leadership' From being all over you on the ground, manipulating you, jamming you against the tie up rail, walking past you and taking your course, moving your feet and taking your space, kicking out at you on the lunge, snaking the head and neck on the lunge, charging you on the lunge, threatening you at feed time or all the way to bucking you off because you don't deserve the privilage.
This article is dedicated to the Novice Horse Owners everwhere.
"Listen to your Horses"